Sunday, December 28, 2014

New Area and I Miss Being Called Names (sorta!)

[I am sorry for being a bit behind on posting these again but here are a few weeks worth of Elder Hays - during this time there were a lot of emails about his niece being born who was due on December 4th, rumored to be arriving sooner than that, but who in actuality ended up making her way into the world on December 7th]

AGGGGHHHHH! I was so hoping that Ruby would be born by now!

So, the reason I'm emailing on a Wednesday is because it was transfer week. On transfer week our P-Day's are usually on Tuesday, but yesterday when we went to email I was able to log on, and I emailed President Pilkington and a couple of missionaries and some friends, and at the end of the hour long session for email (I just log off and log back on and it gives us another hour, which I use 30 minutes of) IT WOULDN'T LET ME BACK ON! I then learned that I had been the only missionary able to log on at all, so yeah, I'm emailing my 30 minutes I missed today because I didn't write my FAMILY; which is kinda the whole point of us emailing

IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT 
I HAVE FINALLY LEFT KEIGHLEY!!!!! I HAVE TRAVELED TO THE DISTANT AND FAR OFF LAND OF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Skipton....


Just fyi Skipton is about 10 minutes away from Keighley, and it's in my district sooooooo I haven't really moved at all. I'll probably be in Keighley for Pday, District meeting, and baptism's which means I'll be there at least 2, sometimes 3 times a week. So yeah. 
 I've been on exchange to Skipton like 8 times, so I pretty much know most of it. 
Not to say that I'm not excited though! I'm serving with Elder Hoareau (Definitely just snuck a look at his badge to spell that), who is from Bordeaux, France. I've learned my two years of French was pretty much pointless, but it's still going to be good! He's a really nice guy, who has a pretty good handle on the language. Probably the funniest thing about him is that when he's talking about Jesus Christ he just says, "And the Christ". It's so absolutely French I can't stop from giggling when he does it 
Skipton is a fairly small town, it's very touristy though because it's the entrance to the Yorkshire dales, which makes it a pretty Idyllic town. It's pretty much one of those old people towns that is super well cared for and has a lot of small shops and markets everywhere that make your heart stop because everything is hecka expensive. It'll be interesting serving here, because it's a branch, and I've never been in a branch before. I'm curious to see how so few people can handle all of the positions necessary for a functioning church, and I'm more curious to see how a branch supports the missionaries versus a ward.
 
Elder Innis is staying in Keighley, and has been called as a district leader, which all of us saw coming from a mile away, and he's getting a new trainee (We call them stars in this mission). It'll be really weird going on exchange, because more then likely I'll be either with Elder Innis, or I'll go back to Keighley, so either way it'll be a bit bizarre. 
MAN OH MAN! IT IS COLD!!! Holy nutcracker I think Satan must be taking a holiday or something because I swear it feels like there is no heat anywhere on this frozen planet. We woke up this morning and there was ice everywhere, and all of the puddles had frozen, and most of the Ponds had a layer of Ice on them!!!!! Brrrrrrr. Don't worry though, I'm keeping warm. My Cole Haan coat is perfect! So long as it doesn't rain, I'm A ok! [can you sense the massive eye roll his mother just performed right about here? WHAT?  Oh sure, like it's never going to RAIN in England in the winter...I feel so much better knowing that coat will work just swell as long as it doesn't rain...]

So yeah, that's enough from me, hope you all are doing well! I love you guys lots! I hope Noelle and the baby are ok, and that everything goes smoothly!
Love you all lots!
--Elder Hays 
[the following week]

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OH MY GOSH I WANT TO CUDDLE THAT LITTLE BALL OF CHUB SO BAD!!!!!!!!
She looks so adorable!!!!! I can't believe she's finally here! I can't wait to see her more properly in a few weeks when we Skype! I'm so happy!!! All I wrote my mission president about pretty much was on how happy I was about Ruby!!!! 

So besides that awesome part to my week! I'm now in a trio with Elder Flake (From New York) and Elder Hoareau (France), and that's been loads of fun! 
It snowed for about 2.2 seconds this morning, but it still snowed! Nothing stuck, but who cares! I'MMMMMMM DREAMING OF A WHITTTTTEEEE CHRISTMASSS! JUST LIKE THE ONES I USED TO KNOW!!!!!! 

So that was cool! I screamed like a school girl when I saw it! 
Besides that not much else has happened. I'll be at a baptism for Melissa and Josh, two people I taught back in Keighley, on Friday, and Josh has asked me to baptize him, so that's going to be nice. 
Mom, is my grammar still terrible? I realized I still don't know half the time when to use a comma, I just do it when it feels right ;p 
I'm getting colder and slightly grumpier as I slowly but surely turn into Elsa from Frozen, but Elder Flake and Elder Hoareau are my Anna's who cheer me up. I'm staying warm though Mum! 
So yeah, one other cool thing that happened, the missionaries in our Zone sang at a huge Church sponsored event celebrating the Christmas Truce during WWI, we sang It's a long way to Tipperary and Pack up your troubles. It was really cool. I naturally cried my eye's out when the Choir sang Noel in French (Did I ever tell you guys that that song makes me cry? Like, every time with out fail. There's just this one part where the notes go slightly off key and clash a bit at the climax, the line in English is "Fall on your knees, and hear the angels voices", and I always cry at that part, wow I just started tearing up when I wrote that line and heard it in my heard ;p ) so it was a beautiful night, there were well over 300 people there, and even the British Legion was represented and various other dignitaries came. 
 
That's been my week! Not much else to say! I love you guys so much! I'll talk to you soon! (I don't have any pics because my cameras dead and I have to buy more batteries)
[and the following week]


So, I haven't been called a bible basher all week, primarily because Skipton is 80% people knocking at deaths door, but also because it's pretty posh. 
...I have a confession... I miss the Chav's of Keighley, I miss being called a bible basher every 10 minutes or so, and having people randomly plow into me and murmur "God Squad"! 
 But Skipton is great! The members are absolutely delightful, and they can COOK! Lawd almighty can some of these members cook! Also, the dales of Skipton are probably one of the most beautiful areas you can possibly serve in in our mission, so I'm soaking it up! 
It's snowed a bit this week, but not to bad! The canal next to our flat froze over, so I threw some coins on top to see if I could break the Ice, but it was too thick! (Mum, spell check. To, or too right there. I think it's to, but I have a feeling I could be wrong) 

 Our investigator Rebecca quit her Job so she can come to church starting in January, so that's pretty awesome! I mean, not awesome that she quit her job, but awesome that she trusts the lord enough to see that Church should come first.
I was able to pop over to Keighley and baptize my investigator Josh, while Elder Innis baptized Melissa (another investigator I taught). It was really cool though to be there because I realized that I've been present for every single investigator baptism Keighley has had this year. I'm really happy for Josh and Melissa, and I know they're starting their life off together on the right foot!  I'll attatch a pic!
Love you guys so much! I hope everything is going super well with little Ruby! If you want to, you can blow up a wall sized portrait of me and put it in her Nursery! ...then again maybe don't... I think that would be a bit too North Korean, all hail to our glorious Leader Chim jung un type of thing. 
Just a thought -


Love you all lots!
--Elder Hays



Sunday, December 7, 2014

Miracles & a Baptism


So, Elder Innis and I are having loads of fun. We've had a great time teaching. We're still developing a rhythm to our teaching, which is pretty hard to get, but we're working on it. With Elder Schwarzkopf I was new so I pretty easily adapted to his teaching style, with Elder Amundsen I liked his style more and we seemed to just kinda click when It came to passing off, but with Elder Innis we've both been trained differently, so we're still trying to find a good balance and rhythm. But we've started teaching a family this week which has been really cool. It's a single Mum and her 4 kids, and it's been really gratifying to see the peace the gospel is bringing to her life. She said after our first prayer together when she was super worked up, "Wow...I feel so calm. That's amazing. I feel like I'm on top of a cloud"., So that's awesome. Besides that all is well. OH, I guess I'll address the changes in the mission that happened a few weeks ago. 
So 
1. The number of zones went from 11 to 7, which means Zones are huge now. Our Zone is 41 missionaries. 
2. All of the dropped Zone Leaders were made trainers last transfer 
3. District leaders were given increased responsibility
4. President has said that by dropping the Zone Leaders he's showing us that titles mean nothing and that the mission needs to be less title focused, so yeah. 
Hope all is going well with you! Love you! 
No pics today, not enough time!

[and from the following week]


Ok, so I've learned from my previous companion Elder Amundsen that he found a cat farm in Florida with over 60 adorable cats on it, and now I'm super jealous. I now have to deal with that jealousy all week...yay. 
So it's been a WEIRD WEEK! 
Alright, here's what's up. We got a phone call from the AP's during district meeting this Wednesday, and they said, "There is somebody in one of your teaching pools that needs to be baptized next weekend. Find them, and get to it", so when they hung up I immediately said, "WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE THEY THINKING!!! WE HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO ONE THAT CAN BE READY FOR BAPTISM NEXT WEEK!". Elder Innis, being the spiritual saintly giant that he is, made us go through our list of investigators, and lo and behold I WAS RIGHT! Sooooo we decided to try by all our formers, all of the area book formers, and pretty much just try to find SOMEONE who had at some point been taught by missionaries, and now wanted to be baptized in a week. Two stipulations for baptisms. 1. They must have attended church twice, 2. They must be living gospel standards (Word of Wisdom, law of chastity, etc.) 10 day's prior to baptism. Those standards pretty much mean that we couldn't just go out, find the first person we see and convince them to be baptized.  So we wen't through the whole day finding like crazy and at the last hour we had NO ONE. So, we wen't to our appointment with R., an eternal investigator that has WoW issues, and hasn't been to progressive for a few months annnndddddddddd
he had decided to quite smoking that day
he felt more sure then ever that he should be baptized
he had been to church more then twice
has a testimony of Jesus Christ 
and he felt ready to finally move on in the gospel

So yeah, R. is getting baptized on Friday. 
MIRACLE
I'm exhausted, this has been stressful as all get out, but ya know what, the Lord gave us a goal, we did everything we could to hit that goal, and in the end, he provided the Ram. 
Love you guys!!!
 Elder Hays
P.S NOELLE YOU HAVING A BABY!

and later - this photo of the successful baptism: